Why is nobody talking about this

oh so I’m supposed to drop a cool hundo on nov 21 for this AND oras




Why is nobody talking about this

oh so I’m supposed to drop a cool hundo on nov 21 for this AND oras


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i’m the worst i’m sorry

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edskudder and I got to do a music video for ifc's Garfunkel and Oates show and are so excited it’s out! It’s dedicated to all the “losers” out there in the world.

If you don’t already know them, Garfunkel and Oates is made up of Kate Micucci and Riki Lindhome and they are so extremely funny and talented. They also have written several musical comedy albums out that crack me UP!!!! Their show on IFC just wrapped up, but I think you can catch a lot of it here:

(please watch and listen, esp. if you need a pick-me-up!)

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the lack of cuddling i am experiencing right now is upsetting 

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Tags: yes me

I’m keeping myself awake with thoughts of “Why would anyone ever like me?”


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javertsconfusedboner said: WHAT IS YOUR GUILTIEST SHIP? What is a song you cannot listen to without crying? If you could kill one TV show and bring back one, which would it be? You get to say six words to your past self, what are they?

Hmmm I guess Ash/Misty, cuz Ash is a weenie? I tear up every time I sing along with A Heart Full of Love from Les Mis. Less Annoying Orange, more Animaniacs. “Get ready for therapy, sweet nugget” (I figure I’ll only travel as far back as high school).


Music Tag Thing

"You can tell a lot about someone by the type of music they listen to. Hit shuffle on your media player and write down the first 20 songs. Rules: No skipping! Then pass this on to 10 people"
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1) Deranged-Coheed & Cambria

2) Doomsday-Nero

3) Truck Drivin’ Song-Weird Al Yankovic

4) Bangarang-Skrillex feat. Sirah

5) Everything is AWESOME!!!-Tegan and Sara

6) We Need Love-The Lonely Island

7) Hate You-Reel Big Fish

8) Jack Sparrow-The Lonely Island feat. Michael Bolton

9) Shadow On The Run-Black Rebel Motorcycle Club

10) Pyrocumulus (Sicknasty)-Homestuck Vol. 8
11) Breath-Breaking Benjamin

12) Throwdown-Homestuck Vol. 5

13) Pirelli’s Miracle Elixir-Sweeney Todd Soundtrack

14) Scott Pilgrim-Plumtree

15) Davesprite-Homestuck Vol. 8

16) Somebody That I Used to Know-Pentatonix

17) Come On Down-Anamanaguchi

18) Staring-Toby “Radiation” Fox

19) Through the Trees-Shantae: Risky’s Revenge Soundtrack

20) Thetawaves-System of a Down

i’m too lazy to tag people


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"I think one thing you can do to help your friends who are depressed is to reach out to them not in the spirit of helping, but in the spirit of liking them and wanting their company. “I’m here to help if you ever need me” is good to know, but hard to act on, especially when you’re in a dark place. Specific, ongoing, pleasure-based invitations are much easier to absorb. “I’m here. Let’s go to the movies. Or stay in and order takeout and watch some dumb TV.” “I’m having a party, it would be really great if you could come for a little while.” Ask them for help with things you know they are good at and like doing, so there is reciprocity and a way for them to contribute. “Will you come over Sunday and help me clear my closet of unfashionable and unflattering items? I trust your eye.” “Will you read this story I wrote and help me fix the dialogue?” “Want to make dinner together? You chop, I’ll assemble.” “I am going glasses shopping and I need another set of eyes.” Remind yourself why you like this person, and in the process, remind them that they are likable and worth your time and interest.

Talk to the parts of the person that aren’t being eaten by the depression. Make it as easy as possible to make and keep plans, if you have the emotional resources to be the initiator and to meet your friends a little more than halfway. If the person turns down a bunch of invitations in a row because (presumably) they don’t have the energy to be social, respect their autonomy by giving it a month or two and then try again. Keep the invitations simple; “Any chance we could have breakfast Saturday?” > “ARE YOU AVOIDING ME BECAUSE YOU’RE DEPRESSED OR BECAUSE YOU HATE ME I AM ONLY TRYING TO HELP YOU.” “I miss you and I want to see you” > “I’m worried about you.” A depressed person is going to have a shame spiral about how their shame is making them avoid you and how that’s giving them more shame, which is making them avoid you no matter what you do. No need for you to call attention to it. Just keep asking. “I want to see you” “Let’s do this thing.” “If you are feeling low, I understand, and I don’t want to impose on you, but I miss your face. Please come have coffee with me.” “Apology accepted. ApologIES accepted. So. Gelato and Outlander?”"

#613: How do I reach out to my friends who have depression? | Captain Awkward

P.S. A lot of people with depression and other mental illnesses have trouble making decisions or choosing from a bunch of different options. “Wanna get dinner at that pizza place on Tuesday night?” is a LOT easier to answer than “So wanna hang out sometime? What do you want to do?”

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